received to date:
February 16 via e-mail: Keep any threatening phone messages that you
get. Let the police and/or youe lawyer hear them before recording them to an
audio tape. They sometimes get distorted in the transfer therefore not being
as understandable as before.
When emailing, calling, or texting
back always keep a cool head. You never want to stoop to their level of
irratic behaviour, name calling, swearing or threats.
Keep a paper trail... Bank
records, emails, text messages, print them or photo copy anything that can
show a pattern of behaviour. Whether it be trips to the beer store, threats,
Keep a diary of exact events and
specifics. When asked later your memory may not be as good at recalling the
If the abuse could lead to
something dangerous, always keep someone nearby to be able to step in.
Thank you S.
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